Mother’s love is the greatest power a woman gets, her strength, wisdom, potential, everything.
Femininity
Only a mother can teach us to accept femininity, enjoy it and understand that it is strength.
Thank you for never concentrating on my beauty, even though you sometimes said that I was pretty. But so light and warm. Aware that this is a gift that is there today and is not there tomorrow. So I accept that I’m beautiful, less today, more tomorrow. And looking at you I will (I think) know how to grow old, because despite the fact that you are already 60 years old, you are the most beautiful woman I know.
Passions
Thanks to you I know that the best mother is one who infects passion, but does not command anything. It allows you to choose, accompanies, but does not criticize.
The daughter whom the mother supports – finally comes to what she wants to do in life. Even if that doesn’t match her mother’s dreams. He is not afraid.Thank you for always believing in me. You keep saying that I have talent and sensitivity, which is strength. And even if I don’t have it – I’m strong because of your faith.
Acceptance
I know that my various choices were difficult for you. You are so orderly. You still have a good girl in you than a rebellious madman.
I rebelled against your “courtesy”. I wanted to annoy you millions of times. And you allowed this rebellion.I felt this acceptance at every step, even when I was drowning and making so many mistakes that others turned away from me. “I’m so hopeless” that I sat in a chair and smoked a cigarette one by one. “You are wonderful, sometimes you are just wrong,” you answered. For you I have always been beautiful, smart and talented. So damn talented, and yet I know I’m not as great as you saw me.
But a daughter who has the mother’s acceptance can make decisions that are not in line with the expectations of others. He is honest and accepts his shortcomings.
Care
You always threw everything and hugged me.Nothing has ever been more important than me. I didn’t see you carelessly, maybe only a few times, but I don’t even remember, because good memories are much stronger. You have shown me many times that I can count on you.Today I know that the daughter who the mother cares for, knows how to look after others. She is warm, mindful. If not still, then, most of the time. I also feel important to myself. Regardless of what turn it was.
Love and men
This is the only sphere where I did not understand you. At least sometime. But you taught me respect for your body and said that love is beautiful and it’s worth the wait. You explained what sex is, that it is strength, power, that everything is fine if two people love each other.
I think that thanks to you I love and am loved today. And I know for sure that women sometimes unnecessarily blame themselves for finding bad partners. Thanks to this, their daughters learn that love can be different. And men too. We can choose more or less consciously.
Forgiveness
Let it not be that you are the icon and dream of every daughter. You had moments when you made mistakes.
Thanks to you I understood that it is not about the mother not making mistakes, but about the possibility of apology and change. Your love has taught me that nothing is just black or white, that people have their weaknesses, that they sometimes behave terribly. But if they want to change – it’s worth forgiving them. Because I’m not perfect either, but that doesn’t mean I’m not cool.
I am glad that soon I will have a daughter and I will be able to love her as you love me. Give her so many wonderful things, so much wisdom. Because if I’m somehow clever – it’s only thanks to you.
I would like to talk to her like a best friend. With the acceptance that we are two separate beings, and she doesn’t have to sacrifice for me just because I raised her and loved her. Just like you expect anything from me. And you are. Even if sometimes I’m not here.
If every mother were like you – the world would be simpler.
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