Love can change our life 180 degrees. I would compare it to oxygen.There is nothing to hide, you can’t live without love. Would you like to have a son similar to your boyfriend? This is a question that I think is worth asking yourself when you think of someone more seriously.It won’t decide anything but it certainly helps define feelings. It is difficult to reach such mature love today and we are all so impatient that we do not give ourselves the chance to wait for a special feeling.We want to be loved so much that we will do everything to be with someone. I think women should be more patient.This is our natural character trait, which we should cultivate and respect, and at the same time work on ourselves.
1.Innocent childish love
I think we experience this in preschool. This is often accompanied by showing off in front of others, wanting to impress our boyfriend / girlfriend.It’s all so sweet and innocent, devoid of bad intentions. It is easy for children to say “I love you”, touch, stroke, hug and hold hands.This is the sweetest love in the world. The boys collect flowers, and the girls dress up for kindergarten and ask their mother to put a scandalous number of butterfly clips in their hair.You can often see fairy-tale behavior and inspiration from parents and what mum does for dad or dad for mum. Oh, if this kind of love could grow up and not turn into something completely different.
2.Unrequited love
We’re growing up to middle school and high school age. There is a sense of shame, fear of humiliation, lack of acceptance and all other fantastic emotions that we love to remember so much;)It is harder to love here and nothing comes easy because peers would think ruthless. So often we fall in love with someone without reciprocity.We also go through various own problems related to maturing and self-discovery. Everything is so exaggerated: either too painful or too perfect.It’s probably the time when we can even idealize someone who is by no means the embodiment of our ideas about the perfect boyfriend. Such love hurts so much and we can heal it for years.
3.Youthful love / first love
Appears most often in high school.If we manage our actions well, maybe it will also be pure love – see point 6.A love that can mature and become the most beautiful or one that spoils immaturity.Love, thanks to which we experience many other feelings for the first time, that’s why it is very important and can strongly affect our psyche and subsequent action if it unfortunately ends.It is often imperfect, sometimes it hurts and raises doubts. It also happens that it is also infatuation and fascination, which can last even several years.
4.Love full of desire
It’s hard for me to put in two words what I mean, but I mean nothing but love full of passion and desire.It is hard to call love after all, because it is rather a feeling that lasts a short time and after which comes disappointment, a collision with reality. It’s a kind of feeling that literally turns off logical thinking and we are guided only by emotions.It happens to people who feel lonely and lost for a long time. Would you like to have a son similar to your boyfriend? Would you like to have a daughter similar to your girlfriend? In this case, the answer that falls most often was “no”. At least I think so. It is usually a temporary satisfaction of needs.
5.Self love
I could devote this whole entry to this love. Everybody of all ages experiences self-esteem problems and there is nothing wrong with it if we aim for our own happiness. It is often confused with selfishness and narcissism. In my opinion, self-love has a lot to do with our dignity, how we treat our mentality and physicality. We should learn this love from a small age to later value ourselves more and choose our friends or partners accordingly.
6.Pure love
Such love from movies and I do not mean here Fifty Shades of Grey . It’s the most powerful kind of love that consumes your body, soul and brain. It is said that it only happens once in a lifetime, and people who experience it are considered to be the happiest in the world. It’s a love that aims for the good of the other person and a constant willingness to help. It’s a sense of security and waking up in the morning with a smile, a sense of confidence. The love that each of us wants theoretically, but we can get lost in life when looking for it.
7.Love has matured
Based on compromises, sometimes sacrifices. Love, which is accompanied by self-awareness but also the desire to solve all problems together. Based on lasting values, wise, flexible and forgiving. It is a complete knowledge of your needs and a certain harmony in the relationship.
8.Unconditional love
More precisely, I mean the love of mother, father to child and vice versa, often also love for grandfather, grandmother. Love full of patience and willing to make the biggest sacrifices. It’s a love that forgives everything and doesn’t judge.
9.I think love
A feeling that we often feel after a year or two of being with someone. This is usually a burned-out fascination / desire that blinded us to such an extent that we are in a difficult place and we do not know where to go. This kind of love also appears when one or two parties do not want to work. It is full of doubts, disappointments and constant questioning. It is also a light plague that needs hard resolutions and specific actions, because without them either everything will fall apart or two people will live in misery and sadness.
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