My life is not without everyday worries, strange people and events that I would rather forget about. However, I am far from devoting more time and attention to them than is necessary.I am a mature person and I have not liked complications for a long time.I do not want to participate in a national complaint about life and problems that will be solved sooner or later.After all, I hate people who judge people by their cover.
“Things that women should stop wearing?The burden of expectations and criticism of other people “
Life is not Instagram or a Facebook photo, but real emotions kept out of reach of others
I am a happy person because I live my own way and do not function under the dictation of others.I don’t know when exactly it happened, but probably when I realized that my life was in my hands and that I was working for my successes and I was responsible for my failures.I am aware of my needs and the needs of my loved ones, and the expectations of others do not occupy my head, because it is not them who make my everyday life the way I want – unique.Unique for me and my loved ones, because created by ourselves.
I stopped comparing myself to others and stopped listening to those who claim to have an excellent life.I like my own life and everything that happens in it – bad and good days, sadness and joy, hopes and dreams, undercut wings and tears of disappointment, difficulties that sometimes seem endless.All this is needed to strengthen character, to live a fuller life.
I am also free from judging others because I do not like to be judged by the prism of what I see outside.Real life goes on inside four walls, outside of social media, and I know what his heart is.
My driving force is family, mutual support we give, but also the freedom we give each other.
Life is simple. Don’t complicate it by force
It’s easy to get lost in what we do. It’s much harder to see the simplicity of life and realize that you don’t really need much to be happy.
“I made the worst mistake you can ever make. I forgot about being happy “
Jorge Luis Borges
Only a few years ago I didn’t enjoy such simple things as today.What used to be a luxury for me is nowadays everyday.I was a person who was totally absorbed in work and being busy was an indicator of ambition.Today I like to say that I am consumed by life.I am happy when I can go for a walk in the forest, listen to the sounds of nature, eat a healthy breakfast, go away and be with myself, discover that I am surrounded by good, wise and valuable people.I learned to wait, appreciate and absorb.I also learned to eliminate what distracted me and disturbed my perception of the world.Thanks to this, I can better focus on what is happening in my life and experience each day as if it were a holiday, although it is accompanied by the prose of life.
“No thought lives in your head for free”
“No thought lives in your head for free.
Each of the thoughts you have is either an investment or a cost.
Either he will push you towards happiness and success, or they will distance you from him.
It will either strengthen you or weaken you.
That’s why you have to choose your thoughts and beliefs wisely. “
This is a quote that I found a few days ago and which I liked very much, especially in the context of the fact that a lot is happening in my life lately.When I feel overloaded with duties and overwhelmed by the fact that I may not be able to cope with them, I run into the world of thoughts.Sometimes I need loneliness for this. And silence.
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